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30.9.07

Discipline


Teen and pre-teens do not always do what parents want. When a child misbehaves, the parent must decide how to respond. All children need rules and expectations to help them learn appropriate behavior. How does a parent teach a child the rules and, when those rules are broken, what should parents do?

Parents should begin by talking to each other about how they want to handle discipline and establish the rules. It is important to view discipline as teaching not punishment. Learning to follow rules keeps a child safe and helps him or her learn the difference between right and wrong.

Once rules have been established, parents should explain to the child that broken rules carry consequences. For example, Here are the rules. When you follow the rules, this will happen and if you break a rule, this is what will happen. Parents and the child should decide together what the rewards and consequences will be. Parents should always acknowledge and offer positive reinforcement and support when their child follows the rules. Parents must also follow through with an appropriate consequence when the child breaks a rule. Consistency and predictability are the cornerstones of discipline and praise is the most powerful reinforcer of learning.

Children learn from experience. Having logical consequences for misbehavior helps them learn that they are accountable for their actions, without damaging their self-esteem. If children are fighting over the television, computer or a video game, turn it off. If a child spills milk at the dinner table while fooling around, have the child clean it up. A teenager who stays up too late may suffer the natural consequences of being tired the next day. Another type of consequence that can be effective is the suspension or delay of a privilege. If a child breaks the rule about where they can go on their bike, take away the bike for a few days. When a child does not do chores, he or she cannot do something special like spend the night with a friend or rent a movie.

There are different styles and approaches to parenting. Research shows that effective parents raise well-adjusted children who are more self-reliant, self-controlled, and positively curious than children raised by parents who are punitive, overly strict (authoritarian), or permissive. Effective parents operate on the belief that both the child and the parent have certain rights and that the needs of both are important. Effective parents don't need to use physical force to discipline the child, but are more likely to set clear rules and explain why these rules are important. Effective parents reason with their children and consider the youngsters' points of views even though they may not agree with them.

Tips for effective discipline:

·Allow for negotiation and flexibility, which can help build your child's social skills.

·Be clear about what you mean. Be firm and specific.

·Consequences should be fair and appropriate to the situation and the child's age.

·Let your child experience the consequences of his behavior.

·Make sure what you ask for is reasonable.

·Model positive behavior. "Do as I say, not as I do" seldom works.

·Speak to your child as you would want to be spoken to if someone were reprimanding you. Don't resort to name-calling, yelling, or disrespect.

·Trust your child to do the right thing within the limits of your child's age and stage of development.

·Whenever possible, consequences should be delivered immediately, should relate to the rule broken, and be short enough in duration that you can move on again to emphasize the positives.

When to seek outside assistance for your child:

Parents are usually the first to recognize that their child has a problem with emotions or behavior. Still, the decision to seek professional help can be difficult and painful for a parent. The first step is to gently try to talk to the child. An honest open talk about feelings can often help. Parents may choose to consult with the child's physicians, teachers, members of the clergy, or other adults who know the child well. These steps may resolve the problems for the child and family.

Following are a few signs, which may indicate that a child and adolescent psychiatric evaluation will be useful.

YOUNGER CHILDREN:

·Frequent, unexplainable temper tantrums.

·Hyperactivity; fidgeting; constant movement beyond regular playing.
·Marked fall in school performance.

·Persistent disobedience or aggression (longer than 6 months) and provocative opposition to authority figures.

·Persistent nightmares.

·Poor grades in school despite trying very hard.

·Severe worry or anxiety, as shown by regular refusal to go to school, go to sleep or take part in activities that are normal for the child's age.

PRE-ADOLESCENTS AND ADOLESCENTS:

·Abuse of alcohol and/or drugs.

·Aggressive or non-aggressive consistent violation of rights of others; opposition to authority, truancy, thefts, or vandalism.

·Depression shown by sustained, prolonged negative mood and attitude, often accompanied by poor appetite, difficulty sleeping or thoughts of death.

·Frequent outbursts of anger, aggression.

·Frequent physical complaints.

·Inability to cope with problems and daily activities.

·Intense fear of becoming obese with no relationship to actual body weight, purging food or restricting eating.

·Marked change in school performance.

·Marked changes in sleeping and/or eating habits.

·Persistent nightmares.

·Self-injury or self-destructive behavior.

·Sexual acting out.

·Strange thoughts, beliefs, feelings, or unusual behaviors.

·Threats of self-harm or harm to others.

·Threats to run away.

The first step in assessing the cause of your child's difficulty is to ask him. Sometimes, gently asking your child questions Why are you constantly sad? Why did you steal that toy from Annie's house? You seem upset, is something bothering you? Why are you so mad? - will reveal the issues with which he's struggling. Giving him adequate time to respond is necessary; talking honestly with your child about his feelings may also be helpful.

Consulting your child's physician or teacher, or your minister, priest, or rabbi may help you identify problem - both in the child and within the family - that could be causing the upset. Frequently, a teacher will notice your child's trouble and call you in. Working together, you can often get the child back on track before schoolwork or social interaction is affected.

As a rule, it is the combination of parents' growing concerns and the observation of outsiders such as teachers, physicians, and family members, that lead parents to consult a clinician for their child. There are a few signs, when present over an extended period time, that indicate that your child has problems which could benefit from treatment.

If problems persist over an extended period of time and especially if others involved in the child's life are concerned, consultation with a child and adolescent psychiatrist or other clinician specifically trained to work with children may be helpful.



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28.9.07

Children's Threats: When Are They Serious?

Every year there are tragedies in which children shoot and kill individuals after making threats. When this occurs, everyone asks themselves, "How could this happen?" and "Why didn't we take the threat seriously?"

Most threats made by children or adolescents are not carried out. Many such threats are the child's way of talking big or tough, or getting attention. Sometimes these threats are a reaction to a perceived hurt, rejection, or attack.

What threats should be taken seriously?

Examples of potentially dangerous or emergency situations with a child or adolescent include:

* threats or warnings about hurting or killing someone
* threats or warnings about hurting or killing oneself
* threats to run away from home
* threats to damage or destroy property

Child and adolescent psychiatrists and other mental health professionals agree that it is very difficult to predict a child's future behavior with complete accuracy. A person's past behavior, however, is still one of the best predictors of future behavior. For example, a child with a history of violent or assaultive behavior is more likely to carry out his/her threats and be violent.

When is there more risk associated with threats from children and adolescents?

The presence of one or more of the following increases the risk of violent or dangerous behavior:

* past violent or aggressive behavior (including uncontrollable angry outbursts)

* access to guns or other weapons

* bringing a weapon to school

* past suicide attempts or threats

* family history of violent behavior or suicide attempts

* blaming others and/or unwilling to accept responsibility for one's own actions

* recent experience of humiliation, shame, loss, or rejection

* bullying or intimidating peers or younger children

* a pattern of threats

* being a victim of abuse or neglect (physical, sexual, or emotional)

* witnessing abuse or violence in the home

* themes of death or depression repeatedly evident in conversation, written expressions, reading selections, or artwork

* preoccupation with themes and acts of violence in TV shows, movies, music, magazines, comics, books, video games, and Internet sites

* mental illness, such as depression, mania, psychosis, or bipolar disorder

* use of alcohol or illicit drugs

* disciplinary problems at school or in the community (delinquent behavior)

* past destruction of property or vandalism

* cruelty to animals

* firesetting behavior

* poor peer relationships and/or social isolation

* involvement with cults or gangs

* little or no supervision or support from parents or other caring adult


What should be done if parents or others are concerned?


When a child makes a serious threat it should not be dismissed as just idle talk. Parents, teachers, or other adults should immediately talk with the child. If it is determined that the child is at risk and the child refuses to talk, is argumentative, responds defensively, or continues to express violent or dangerous thoughts or plans, arrangements should be made for an immediate evaluation by a mental health professional with experience evaluating children and adolescents. Evaluation of any serious threat must be done in the context of the individual child's past behavior, personality, and current stressors.

In an emergency situation or if the child or family refuses help, it may be necessary to contact local police for assistance or take the child to the nearest emergency room for evaluation. Children who have made serious threats must be carefully supervised while awaiting professional intervention. Immediate evaluation and appropriate ongoing treatment of youngsters who make serious threats can help the troubled child and reduce the risk of tragedy.

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24.9.07

When Parents Disagree on Discipline



At about 46% in the U.S., it is sometimes surprising that the divorce rate isn’t actually higher than it really is. Assuming it isn’t just inertia on the part of the 54%, it’s a tribute to the willingness of so many couples to work out their differences. This ability and willingness is a key factor in building strong family and keeping them together.

Fortunately, most parents will agree on one thing: the children should not be put in the middle of these conflicts. Avoiding that result requires skill, maturity, tact and compromise. It also requires that parents respect and backup each others decisions. When disagreement is inevitable try to work it out outside the ears of young children. However, seeing parents work out disagreements rationally and calmly can actually be a healthy thing.

Any child who has spilled a glass of milk or tried to negotiate a later bedtime is aware of the subtle differences in her parents' styles of discipline. One parent is often a bit quicker to yell or to forgive. One may be more sensitive to appearances and propriety, while the other may focus on results. The blending of those two styles forms the family's approach to raising children.

But there are some families in which the parents' beliefs about changing children's behavior are so different that their attempts at discipline become more of a problem than a solution. A child whose mother is strict but whose father is a consistent pushover, for example, receives confusing information about what's expected.

Such fundamental disagreements can lead to difficulties that go far beyond the consequences of not picking up toys after playing with them. Studies have found that parents who have significantly different child-rearing styles are more likely to have children with behavior problems than families who have similar styles.

Toddlers and preschoolers naturally test the limits of what's acceptable in their behavior. It's one of the ways that they figure out how the world works. While those limits may be temporarily frustrating to them, they are ultimately reassuring because they are predictable. Young children need limits and thrive on their predictability.

A parent who gives in to his children's every demand in the hope of satisfying them almost always finds that the opposite happens: Instead of letting up, the children continue to push for more and more, looking for a sign of how much is too much.

A similar thing happens if the parents cannot decide how to discipline and set limits on their children. It's healthy for children to see how their parents reach a compromise or settle a disagreement if it's done peacefully and effectively. But if the parents can't reach an agreement, the children's behavior often gets worse as they search for the reassurance of stable boundaries to their lives.

In those situations, the main issue of using discipline to teach children appropriate behavior gets lost in the battles between parents for an illusion of control. The children become confused and respond by continuing to act out, both to assert their own power and to figure out which rules are really important.

Working Together on Discipline—

It's not surprising that parents have differing views on the best way to discipline their children. Working out those differences requires clarity and perspective. Safety issues (You have to hold an adult's hand when you're walking on the sidewalk) should be the first consideration. They also require the greatest amount of agreement from both parents.

Other matters can usually be resolved by compromise or agreeing on which parent will set the rules about particular issues. Even so, forming a united front on discipline is often more easily said than done. Here are some ideas that may help:

1. If the children are still young, parents have time to negotiate some agreement about the major aspects of child rearing.

2. Sit down together and list the aspects of child rearing on which you DO agree. For example, what goals do you have for your child (say by the time he is 15), and what values do you want him to learn? Then, identify the standards of behavior that you agree are realistic for your child's age. Also list any strategies you both think are important. For instance, you may disagree about punishments, but you may agree that both parents should set an example of respect and honesty. Or you may agree that it's important to tell him you appreciate it when he does what you ask.

3. After you've identified points of agreement, begin to list areas of disagreement. Talk openly, calmly and respectfully about what you each believe and where you learned those beliefs. Together, use your childhood memories to help you identify the things you want to repeat and the things you'd like to leave behind. Identify how incidences in your childhood made you feel, understanding that nobody's childhood is perfect. Do you want to repeat behaviors that left you with negative feelings, such as resentment?

4. Identify child-rearing sources to which you can turn, understanding that, together, you may need to learn new strategies to replace the old ways that are a source of conflict.

5. Agree to a regular time to check in with each other about how you're doing together as parents. Give new strategies a chance to take hold and give your child a chance to learn that mom and dad are working together. Do not expect your child's behavior to change immediately, just because you are trying a new mutually agreed upon tactic.

6. Be prepared for behavioral problems. Remember that many changes in children's behaviors are linked to their stage of normal development. It should come as no surprise that your toddler becomes defiant or your preschooler has an occasional temper tantrum. Talk ahead of time about how each of you would handle these predictable situations. That way you'll have fewer conflicts when they occur.

7. Don't be trapped by your past. That includes both your own childhood and the style of discipline you may have used in an earlier marriage. Look for ways to explore, with your spouse, your unquestioned assumptions about disciplining children. One good way to do that is to take a parenting class together. That does two things: It helps you realize how differently other people respond to the same situations you face as parents, and it gives you and your spouse a common base of information from which to develop your shared approaches to discipline.

8. If, after giving these steps a good try, your levels of marital conflict continue, seek professional counseling. It will be in the best interests of your child and your marriage to develop a plan as early as possible. It's far easier to learn to strategize together about appropriate toddlers' television watching than it is to wait until the issues are far more serious, such as drug use or school truancy.

Mature parents will ultimately realize that no single disagreement is likely to be so important that it’s worth harming the happiness of the family members. You don’t burn the house down because you don’t like the color of the drapes. Respectful parents will see that one may get his or her way this time, but the next time the partner’s point of view will prevail.



20.9.07

Reactive Attachment Disorder

Attachment disorder is a broad term intended to describe disorders of mood, behavior, and social relationships arising from a failure to form normal attachments to primary care giving figures in early childhood. Such a failure would result from unusual early experiences of neglect, abuse, abrupt separation from caregivers after about age 6 months but before about age 3 years, frequent change of caregivers or excessive numbers of caregivers, or lack of caregiver responsiveness to child communicative efforts. A problematic history of social relationships occurring after about age 3 may be distressing to a child, but does not result in attachment disorder.

The term attachment disorder is most often used to describe emotional and behavioral problems of young children, but is sometimes applied to school-age children or even to adults. The specific difficulties implied depend on the age of the individual being assessed. Thus, no general list of symptoms of attachment disorder can legitimately be presented.

Reactive attachment disorder (also known as "RAD") is the broad term used to describe those disorders of attachment which are classified in ICD-10 94.1 and 94.2, and DSM-IV 313.89. RAD arises from a failure to form normal attachments to primary care giving figures in early childhood. Such a failure would result from unusual early experiences of neglect, abuse, abrupt separation from caregivers after about age 6 months but before about age 3 years, frequent change of caregivers, or lack of caregiver responsiveness to child communicative efforts. It is characterized by markedly disturbed and developmentally inappropriate social relatedness in most contexts, beginning before the age of 5 years. The theoretical base for reactive attachment disorder is attachment theory.

Children who are adopted after the age of six months are at risk for attachment problems.[2] Normal attachment develops during the child's first two to three years of life. Problems with the caregiver-child relationship during that time, orphanage experience, or breaks in the consistent caregiver-child relationship interfere with the normal development of a healthy and secure attachment. There are wide ranges of attachment difficulties that result in varying degrees of emotional disturbance in the child. However, less than ideal attachment styles are not within the criteria for RAD.

Classification

ICD-10 describes Reactive Attachment Disorder of Childhood, known as RAD, and Disinhibited Disorder of Childhood, less well known as DAD. DSM-IV-TR also describes Reactive Attachment Disorder of Infancy or Early Childhood divided into two subtypes, Inhibited Type and Disinhibited Type, both known as RAD. The two classifications are similar and both include:

* markedly disturbed and developmentally inappropriate social relatedness in most contexts.
* The disturbance is not accounted for solely by developmental delay and does not meet the criteria for Pervasive Developmental Disorder.
* Onset before 5 years of age.
* Requires a history of significant neglect.
* Implicit lack of identifiable, preferred attachment figure.

There must be a history of 'pathogenic care' defined as disregard of the childs basic emotional or physical needs or repeated changes in primary caregiver that prevents the formation of a discrimination or selective attachment that is presumed to account for the disorder. Unusually therefore part of the diagnosis is history of care rather than observation of symptoms.

In DSM-IV-TR the inhibited form is described as:

* "Persistent failure to initiate or respond in a developmentally appropriate way to most social interactions, as manifest by excessively inhibited, hypervigilant, or highly ambivalent, or contradictory responses, eg the child may respond to caregivers with a mixture of approach, avoidance and resistance to comforting, or may exhibit frozen watchfulness.

Such infants do not seek and accept comfort at times of threat, alarm or distress, thus failing to maintain 'proximity', an essential element of attachment behavior.

The disinhibited form shows:

* "Diffuse attachments as manifest by indiscriminate sociability with marked inability to exhibit appropriate selective attachments, eg excessive familiarity with relative strangers or lack of selectivity in choice of attachment figures"

There is therefore a lack of 'specificity', the second basic element of attachment behavior. The ICD-10 descriptions are comparable save that ICD-10 includes in its description several elements not included in DSM-IV-TR as follows:

* psychological and physical abuse and injury in addition to neglect. This somewhat controversial, being a commission rather than ommission and because abuse of itself does not lead to attachment disorder.
* associated emotional disturbance.
* poor social interaction with peers.

'Disinhibited' and 'inhibited' are not opposites in terms of attachment disorder and can co-exist in the same child. The inhibited form has a greater tendency to ameliorate with an appropriate caregiver whilst the disinhibited form is more enduring. However, the disinhibited form can endure alonside structured attachment behavior towards the childs permanent caregivers.

Whilst RAD is likely to occur in relation to neglectful and abusive childcare, there should be no automatic diagnosis on this basis alone as children can form stable attachments and social relationships despite marked abuse and neglect. Abuse can occur alongside the required factors but on its own does not explain attachment disorder. It is associated with developed, albeit disorganized attachment. Within official classifications, attachment disorganization is a risk factor but not in itself an attachment disorder. Further although attachment disorders tend to occur in the context of some institutions, repeated changes of primary caregiver or extremely neglectful identifiable primary caregivers who show persistent disregard for the child's basic attachment needs, not all children raised in these conditions develop an attachment disorder.

Incidence

RAD is considered to be "very uncommon" under the DSM-IV-TR criteria although there is an estimate of prevalence amongst children freed for adoption within the USA foster care system of 10%.[5] There has been considerable recent research into prevalence amongst children cared for in orphanages, particularly in Romania, where conditions of extreme deprivation were not uncommon.

There are no precise statistics on prevalence. According to the APSAC Taskforce Report (2006), some have suggested that RAD may be quite prevalent because severe child maltreatment, which is known to increase risk for RAD, is prevalent. The Taskforce did not agree with this view as severely abused children may exhibit similar behaviors to RAD behaviors and there are several far more common and demonstrably treatable diagnoses which may better account for these difficulties. Many children experience severe maltreatment but do not develop clinical disorders. The Taskforce states that it should not be assumed that RAD underlies all or even most of the behavioral and emotional problems seen in foster children, adoptive children, or children who are maltreated. Rates of child abuse and/or neglect or problem behaviors should not serve as a benchmark for estimates of RAD. The Taskforce further point out that according to the DSM, RAD is presumed to be a “very uncommon” disorder (APA, 1994).[6]

According to Prior and Glaser (2006), in the absence of available and responsive caregivers it appears that some children are particularly vulnerable to developing attachment disorders. "The prevalence is unclear but is probably quite rare, other than in populations of children being reared in the most extreme, deprived settings such as some orphanages."[4] Many children who have experienced serious maltreatment at the hands of their primary caregiver may have formed a disorganized attachment which manifests itself in difficult behaviors, but they would not fulfil the current criteria for RAD. There is a lack of clarity about the presentation of attachment disorders over the age of 5 years and difficulty in distinguishing between aspects of attachment disorders, disorganized attachment or the sequalae of maltreatment. [4]

Treatment

There is a variety of effective prevention programs and treatment approaches for attachment disorder based on Attachment theory. All approaches concentrate on increasing the responsiveness and sensitivity of the caregiver, or if that is not possible, changing the caregiver. Approaches with a sound evidential and theoretical base include 'Watch, wait and wonder' (Cohen et al, 1999), manipulation of sensitive responsiveness, (van den Boom 1994 and 1995), modified 'Interaction Guidance' (Benoit et al, 2001), 'Preschool Parent Psychotherapy' (Toth et al, 2002) and Parent-Child psychotherapy (Leiberman et al 2000).[4][1] Other known treatment methods include 'Circle of Security' (Marvin et al, 2002) and Developmental, Individual-difference, Relationship-based therapy (DIR) (also referred to as Floor Time) by Stanley Greenspan, although DIR is primarily directed to treatment of pervasive developmental disorders.

There is considerable controversy over the diagnosis and treatment of attachment disorders including reactive attachment disorder, by attachment therapists, a form of diagnosis and treatment that is largely unvalidated and has developed outside the scientific mainstream.[6]These therapies have little or no evidence base and vary from mild therapeutic work to more extreme forms of physical and coercive techniques, of which the best known are holding therapy, rebirthing, rage-reduction and the Evergreen model. In general these therapies are aimed at adopted or fostered children with a view to creating attachment in these children to their new carers. Critics maintain that the link between this kind of therapy and attachment theory is at best tenuous.[4] Many of these therapies concentrate on changing the child rather than the caregiver. (Chaffin et al 2006)

Recent research on deprived populations


A 1998 study showed that children adopted from poorly run Romanian orphanages had a higher frequency of insecure patterns of attachment than control groups, although this difference improved in the follow-up study 3 years later. [11][12] However they continued to show significantly higher levels of indiscriminate friendliness.

A later study looked at chidren adopted in the UK who had suffered early severe deprivation in Romania, some 'early placed' and some 'late placed'. The 'late-placed' children showed a far higher incidence of atypical insecure patterns such as displaying both strong avoidant and strong dependent attachment behavior patterns. [13]

A 2002 study of children in residential nurseries in Bucharest, using the DAI, challenged the current DSM and ICD conceptualisations of disordered attachment and showed that inhibited and disinhibited disorders could co-exist in the same child. It also showed higher incidence of RAD in the standard care group in the institution than in the 'pilot group' receiving more consistent care, or in the non-institutionalised group. [14]

A 2005 study comparing institutionalised and community children in Bucharest, using the DAI, again showed significantly higher levels of both forms of RAD in the institutionalised children, regardless of how long they had been there. Further, only 22% of the institutionalised children had organised attachments as opposed to 78% of the community children, and all the children in the community group showed clear attachment patterns as opposed to only 3% in the institutionalised group. It would appear that children in institutions like these are unable to form selective attachments to their caregivers. The study also concluded the signs of RAD related to how fully developed and expressed attachment behaviors are rather than the organisation of a particular pattern.[15]

There are two important studies relating to high risk and maltreated children in the USA. The first, in 2004, compared ill-treated children in foster care, children in a homeless shelter with their mothers and low income children in the Head Start programme. The children were assessed using DSM and ICD and Zeanah and Boris' alternative proposed criteria. The study reports that children from the maltreatment sample were significantly more more likely to meet criteria for one or more attachment disorders than children from the other groups, however this was mainly disrupted attachment disorder rather than DSM or ICD classified disorder. Under DSM and ICD classifications there was little difference between the foster care and homeless shelter groups.[16]

The second study, also in 2004, was for the purposes of ascertaining prevalence of RAD, whether RAD could be reliably identified in maltreated rather than neglected toddlers and whether the two types of RAD were independent. The DAI and DSM and ICD were used. 35% were identified as having ICD RAD and 22% as having ICD DAD. 38% fulfilled the DSM criteria for RAD. [17]The study found that RAD could be reliably identified and also that the inhibited and disinhibited forms were not independent. However, there are some methodological concerns with this study. A number of the children identified as fulfilling the criteria did in fact have a preferred attachment figure.[4] This study also showed that mothers with a history of psychiatric problems were more likely to have children exhibiting signs of inhibited/emotionally withdrawn RAD but mothers with a history of psychiatric problems and substance misuse had children more likely to exhibit signs of disinhibited/indiscriminate RAD. [17]

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References

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Video Tutorial: Parenting RAD Children

You have adopted a girl who is 9 years old from the Foster Care system. You know that she has lived in 10 different homes with 10 different sets of caregivers in her lifetime, and she has witnessed domestic violence, as well as been abused and neglected. You are busy preparing dinner for your family. Click begin [below] to see a video of a situation. After you watch the situation, you must choose a response. Your goal is to respond in a way that helps build a healthy attachment, while keeping parent and child anger levels down. There are three meters to measure your progress, parent anger, child anger, attachment. Try to keep the anger meters low, and the attachment meter high. When you've finished the activity, return to the Parenting Activities page to try again. Good luck!

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